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![Bully Boundary: developing emotional Aikido [VLOG]](https://img.youtube.com/vi/W06aM05ogzY/mqdefault.jpg)
Yulia Rafailova
- Apr 16, 2019
Bully Boundary: developing emotional Aikido [VLOG]
Hi Parents, Last week I had a chat with a mom about her young son who was being bullied at school. During our conversation, I mentioned a really valuable interview I had heard on the radio earlier that week about dealing with difficult people and stressful situations. (I was able to find a link! I highly encourage you to listen to this NPR interview with psychologist Lisa Damour.) In this Vlog I share the same tips I discussed during our call and summarize Lisa Damour's aweso
Yulia Rafailova
- Apr 6, 2019
An Open Letter to Parents: How micromanaging is making your child sick
Dear Parents, Your subconscious mind is programmed to control 95% of all your thoughts, emotions, and actions. This "autopilot" mode explains why you have a certain way you do things - the way you gesture with your hands, the way you laugh, chew your food, and the way you parent. While there's nothing inherently wrong with that, if you are not mindful of your patterns and how they affect your child's development, then you may be repeating some painful habits that are keeping
![What am I doing WRONG?? Single Biggest Mistake Parents Make [VLOG]](https://img.youtube.com/vi/bS73E6DyLgk/mqdefault.jpg)
Yulia Rafailova
- Mar 7, 2019
What am I doing WRONG?? Single Biggest Mistake Parents Make [VLOG]
I've been meaning to Vlog on this topic for a while now, because this really is such a common thread among most (if not all) of the families I coach. This mistake is so widespread, I think, because parents make it with the best intentions in mind. Yet, they lack the awareness of how this one mistake is damaging their relationship with their child. This mistake is overfunctioning. Overfunctioning is like a weird, self-reinforcing feedback-loop that keeps parents stuck in a cyc
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Yulia Rafailova
- Jan 27, 2019
STUCK in a Vicious Cycle of FAILURE?? [VLOG]
Parents, Is your child is stuck in a vicious cycle of failure? Are they failing a class, several classes? Failing to keep their backpack organized? Failing to turn in their work? Failing to brush their teeth most nights? Failing to "launch" in general? In this week's Vlog, I summarize three of the most powerful take-aways that I got from Michael Delman M Ed. in his workshop where he shares the stories and tools from his new book - Your Kid's Gonna Be OK: A Guide to Raising a
![Three Procrastination Hacks [VLOG]](https://img.youtube.com/vi/Q0W-8983pOM/mqdefault.jpg)
Yulia Rafailova
- Jul 23, 2018
Three Procrastination Hacks [VLOG]
In this video, I talk about a the very common theme of procrastination. I’ll review: 1. Three common beliefs that cause us to procrastinate. 2. Three hacks to overcome those beliefs. 3. The “One Minute” rule I follow to help me beat procrastination everyday. I’m a master procrastinator. I have spent a lifetime figuring out ways to either delay or avoid tasks I don’t feel like doing. I like to think of procrastination as “malfunction” in one of the five steps of executive func
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